Too far down the rabbit hole?

I sometimes wonder if I've gone too far down the rabbit hole. I'm a lot kinkier than I thought and when it comes to answering close folk's questions, it can be a little difficult for one: me to explain and two: for them to understand. For example, I was considering at one point maybe attending …

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Re-taking the BDSM test: 6 months later

I promised some of you lovelies a while back that I'd be re-taking the infamous BDSM test 6 months on from when I last took it in April this year. The last lot of results I got really surprised me. Now in October, this batch was no exception. As time's gone on in me experimenting …

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Get your kink on

It's been almost a year since I properly began to research the mysterious world of BDSM. It doesn't feel like a year at all, it still only feels like yesterday! I've been baby stepping in my exploration. A good 90% of it has been reading, watching and writing with a few *ahem* bedroom experiments along …

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Vanilla is not a dirty word

This is a continuation from something I saw the lovely kitten from Sir and Kittens Pleasure Place say about vanilla shaming recently. I too have seen certain kink circles on FetLife etc. using the term "vanilla" as derogatory and as an insult. For those who don't know, "vanilla" is a word to describe a non-kinky …

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