So recently, I needed to get emergency contraception. Also known as the morning-after pill, also known as Plan B. Me and my boyfriend were in the throes of getting down and dirty together, having a good time, when all of a sudden, my boyfriend stops. "Shit...the condom's come off." We stopped right away and dealt …
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I didn't expect to have, "get tied up by a man I'd just met at a conference" on my 2023 bingo card, but that's exactly what I did. Let me explain. NEW EXPERIENCES: ROPE & THE HUMAN BARBIE DOLL Yep, that's right. Recently at Eroticon 2023, I got tied up with rope for the first …
TW: This post contains mentions of a hunter/hunted roleplay dynamic and CNC. Reader discretion is advised. Run, run, run as fast as you can... Yes, the millennial in me desperately wants to finish with, "You can't catch me! I'M THE GINGERBREAD MAN!". But we're not talking about how amazing Shrek is today (but if you …
TW: Miscarriage, pregnancy loss. I've spoken in the past about my experience with early miscarriage. It's never a pleasant topic to talk about, but I strongly believe it needs to be talked about. That, and during that time, I found writing out my thoughts and feelings to be healing. Recently, the memories of that time …
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Monasticism. An institutionalized religious practice or movement whose members attempt to live by a rule that requires works that go beyond those of either the laity or the ordinary spiritual leaders of their religions.Britannica To preface: I don't live a monastic life, obviously. I wouldn't be allowed to have this blog, for starters. Aside from the adult …
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Becoming Violet Grey 