Defining yourself when you don’t fit in

CONTENT NOTE: Mentions of homophobia, religion and spiritual abuse. Reader discretion is advised. 'I am the sole author of the dictionary that defines me.' - Zadie Smith. When looking at this quote by the very talented Zadie Smith, I think a lot about what this means. The last few years have entailed a massive overhaul …

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Sex without love? I just can’t do it

“Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.” – Hunter S Thompson I agree and disagree with this statement. I know you might think, for someone with such strong opinions on things, how could I agree and disagree with something like this? Well being a sex blogger, I prefer to approach …

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It’s always a scary time for women

TW: Mentions of domestic abuse, sexual violence, mental health and suicide. Ranty. Reader discretion is advised. 'It's always been a scary time for women. What we need is more self-aware men.' This quote above is something my Dad said to me in the wake of the 2018 Toronto van attack, where a man ran over …

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The Feminine Housewife: Flowers to Fundamentalism

TW: This post covers heavy themes including religious fundamentalism, sexism, abuse of spouses and children, and forced female submission. The links in the post are to explanations of the various movements and individuals by people who cover topics on their YouTube channels, such as political movements, religious fundamentalism and cults. Reader discretion is strongly advised. …

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