What does it mean to say I love you?

What does it mean to say, 'I love you'? Is it the calming hand on a shoulder, or taking them into your arms? Or you into theirs? Is it that glance across the room at them at a party? That familiar glint in their eye, of admiration, lust, friendship and a connection much deeper than …

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Afterwards. Aftermath. Aftercare.

These last two years have been, for all of us, eventful, unexpected and painful. We're in the worst pandemic since the Spanish Flu. We're not only facing the sickness of a virus, but the sickness of ignorance and selfishness. We've experienced things in varying degrees from different, to one that you would not wish on …

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Defining yourself when you don’t fit in

CONTENT NOTE: Mentions of homophobia, religion and spiritual abuse. Reader discretion is advised. 'I am the sole author of the dictionary that defines me.' - Zadie Smith. When looking at this quote by the very talented Zadie Smith, I think a lot about what this means. The last few years have entailed a massive overhaul …

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Sex without love? I just can’t do it

“Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.” – Hunter S Thompson I agree and disagree with this statement. I know you might think, for someone with such strong opinions on things, how could I agree and disagree with something like this? Well being a sex blogger, I prefer to approach …

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