R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Respect is so important. I firmly believe in the basic respect of manners and being good to people, unless they've given you a solid reason not to be. Even then, I believe it's best to remove yourself from their toxicity if you can. I do get stressed and angry about injustices and people being horrid …

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Eroticon 2020 Meet and Greet

It's that time of year again! Eroticon 2020 is on the horizon and I'm incredibly excited for it. Every year, Eroticon does a virtual meet and greet, kind of like a 'pre-get-to-know-me' before meeting in the flesh. Away we go, shall we? NAME (and Twitter if you have one) Violet Grey. Sometimes called Miss Violet …

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Sex, self-care and sustainability

CONTENT NOTE: A late addition to this week's Wicked Wednesday prompt, as well as part of this week's Sex Bloggers for Mental Health prompt. This last year especially, I took greater steps to prioritise certain things in my life. For the last two years, I've been gradually working on healing my mental and emotional health …

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Finding new ways to be intimate

Me and my boyfriend haven't had penetrative sex in around two months now. As well as being ridiculously busy over the festive period with work, the main reason is due to an injury my boyfriend is in the process of healing. Long story short, his everyday job is quite physical. The air-con broke, and management …

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Discussing polyamory with my boyfriend

CONTENT NOTE: For anyone who is polyamorous, just to let you know I'm using very generalised language here (coming from someone who has only ever been in monogamous relationships) so please bear with me. Thanks. V x Polyamory has been a topic of discussion with my boyfriend a few times in our relationship. Usually, it's …

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