Finding new ways to be intimate

Me and my boyfriend haven't had penetrative sex in around two months now. As well as being ridiculously busy over the festive period with work, the main reason is due to an injury my boyfriend is in the process of healing. Long story short, his everyday job is quite physical. The air-con broke, and management …

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Discussing polyamory with my boyfriend

CONTENT NOTE: For anyone who is polyamorous, just to let you know I'm using very generalised language here (coming from someone who has only ever been in monogamous relationships) so please bear with me. Thanks. V x Polyamory has been a topic of discussion with my boyfriend a few times in our relationship. Usually, it's …

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Why do you have condoms in your purse?

CONTENT WARNING: A little ranty. I've been asked this question so many times: Why do you have condoms in your purse? But you're a woman, you don't have to carry them. That's the man's job! Why have got them in your purse? Are you looking to get laid? Since I was given free condoms by …

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Gimme the vibrator and no one gets hurt!

Sometimes I just need an orgasm. I'm desperate for it. I'll get headaches if I've gone without an orgasm for a little bit. I'll feel a little down even. Out of sorts. I can't think, which when I really need to think, like when I'm writing, can be a pain in the ass. So when I am …

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When it rains, it pours

Remember when I told you that I hadn't had a period in seven months? Well, after that post, I've had two in the last month. It seems whenever I complain about my cycles on my blog, they seem to start up again. Perhaps my ovaries have been reading Enough To Make You Blush? I don't know! …

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