How to be a woman 101

CONTENT WARNING: Contains triggering themes relating to sexism, victim blaming, physical and sexual violence. This piece is designed to provoke thought and be a very sarcastic social commentary on some of the bullshit I've (and many others) heard over the years, in the style of a spoken word piece. This piece does not reflect any …

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Regretting and forgiving

CONTENT WARNING: Mention of relationship abuse, mental health and physical illness. Reader discretion is advised. I like to think I approach life without regrets, but I'd be lying. I've said and done things I deeply regret. Especially when I was experiencing post-traumatic stress in my late teens and early twenties, when I was quick to …

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Why do you have condoms in your purse?

CONTENT WARNING: A little ranty. I've been asked this question so many times: Why do you have condoms in your purse? But you're a woman, you don't have to carry them. That's the man's job! Why have got them in your purse? Are you looking to get laid? Since I was given free condoms by …

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When it rains, it pours

Remember when I told you that I hadn't had a period in seven months? Well, after that post, I've had two in the last month. It seems whenever I complain about my cycles on my blog, they seem to start up again. Perhaps my ovaries have been reading Enough To Make You Blush? I don't know! …

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To love myself as I love you

CW: This post contains talks about mental health (inc. post-traumatic stress, anxiety & depression) verbal & emotional abuse in relationships and sexual coercion. Reader discretion is strongly advised. Love takes many forms. The love we have for our family is different to that of our spouse. The love we have for our siblings is different …

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