I'm a sucker for the 'soft Dom'. He's always been my ideal for me if I'm his submissive. I don't like being completely dependent on someone, I never have. But I love the gentlemen who are geared towards a protective, provider-like personality, who just want to spoil and take care of you, but still respects …
So recently I bought this... I was perusing a sex shop and found a velvet collar and leash, which I've been curious about trying for a while now. While it may not be the most amazing collar and leash in the world, it's a start. I tried it on when I got home, and my …
As you know, I'm a switch in my kinky identity. I can switch between various kink-related roles, more specifically for me, Top and Bottom, and Dominant and Submissive. Those of you who follow me on Twitter know that I poke fun at myself with my introspections and discoveries as a switch. It namely includes a …
I promised some of you lovelies a while back that I'd be re-taking the infamous BDSM test 6 months on from when I last took it in April this year. The last lot of results I got really surprised me. Now in October, this batch was no exception. As time's gone on in me experimenting …
A while back, I read a really interesting post from sayyidsgirl about songs that can trigger a submissive mind set. I love music. I can't go a day without listening to it. It's a creative way to express feelings in all ways, shapes and forms. It resonates with us, entertains us and moves us. Listening …
Continue reading Exploring BDSM/Kink – Part 10 – Music and submission?
Becoming Violet Grey 