Exploring BDSM/Kink – Part 10 – Music and submission?

A while back, I read a really interesting post from sayyidsgirl about songs that can trigger a submissive mind set.

I love music. I can’t go a day without listening to it. It’s a creative way to express feelings in all ways, shapes and forms. It resonates with us, entertains us and moves us. Listening to music helps me write, it helps clear my head and it gets me up and dancing.

But does music play a part in me exploring my being a switch?

In a manner of speaking, yes.

Nothing like a good bass, flowing melodies and deep, ethereal tones to set the mood, right? 😊 This music I listen to and love in general anyway also evokes and in essence, fuels certain parts of my dominant and submissive traits.

As you know, for the last few months I’ve been feeling more on the submissive side of my switch (though dominant me has begun to creep back in at times πŸ˜‰)

There are certain songs that I love listening to can push me more in to a submissive feeling. Kinky or vanilla mood, I will fall in to the less dominant partner position, which personally I love! πŸ˜‚

To add a bit of context, in general everyday life, my boyfriend is very dominant. He works meticulously hard in his line of work and can operate incredibly well under pressure. He can easily take control of a situation and keep very calm in a crisis.

Like most men, he’s a firm believer in providing for his family and is very protective of me. So for me personally, it doesn’t take much for me to happily fall in to the “less dominant” partner role in our relationship.

Around him, I seem to take to that like a duck to water. Especially when he takes me out to dinner for a date night, for instance. You know that smiley, blushing girlfriend you see with her boyfriend at a restaurant? Yep, that’s me. πŸ˜‚

Anyway, back to music.

Kink aside, the biggest needs for me as a submissive is that I am protected and cared for by my Dominant. Without that, I can’t submit at all. I like knowing that someone’s got my back and although the power exchange may seem unequal, we are very much equal and a team. The music that pushes my submissive feeling further exacerbates that. That feeling of love, connection and protection under submission (if that makes any sense?) As well as everything else of course πŸ˜‰

For me it’s not so much the lyrics, it’s more the melody, the tone and the notes and how thus make me feel.

So if you want to have a listen, here a some of the songs that can make feel like, “Yes, Sir!” πŸ˜‰

All my love,

Violet xx

*Picture credit – Pinterest

*Video credits – YouTube

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