Sex, self-care and sustainability

This last year especially, I took greater steps to prioritise certain things in my life. For the last two years, I've been gradually working on healing my mental and emotional health after a mental breakdown and miscarriage shortly after. I've also been prioritising my physical health more as well. I've started to properly do what …

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Gimme the vibrator and no one gets hurt!

Sometimes I just need an orgasm. I'm desperate for it. I'll get headaches if I've gone without an orgasm for a little bit. I'll feel a little down even. Out of sorts. I can't think, which when I really need to think, like when I'm writing, can be a pain in the ass. So when I am …

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To love myself as I love you

CW: This post contains talks about mental health (inc. post-traumatic stress, anxiety & depression) verbal & emotional abuse in relationships and sexual coercion. Reader discretion is strongly advised. Love takes many forms. The love we have for our family is different to that of our spouse. The love we have for our siblings is different …

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