Vanilla is not a dirty word

This is a continuation from something I saw the lovely kitten from Sir and Kittens Pleasure Place say about vanilla shaming recently. I too have seen certain kink circles on FetLife etc. using the term "vanilla" as derogatory and as an insult. For those who don't know, "vanilla" is a word to describe a non-kinky …

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Throwing labels out the window

Ah labels. Labels labels labels. Though certain labels have helped me over the last few months i.e. switch, as a point of reference, I'll happily hold my hands up and say as a newbie, I well and truly fell head first in to the label trap. I suppose to find a name for a feeling …

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