Sleep? What is this sleep you speak of? I dropped off last night while tucked in bed binge watching YouTube videos, waking up at 2am wondering what on earth was going on. Since then, my brain has decided "Sleep? Nah, 2 hours tonight and I'm ready for the day!" My sister and brother-in-law gifted me …
Tag: life
Windows to the soul
It's been said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. You can learn a lot about someone through their eyes. I love eye contact. If someone is maintaining eye contact (and not glazing over) they're interested in what you have to say. It's connecting, it's bonding and aside from that, eyes are just …
The sanitization of adult content
SESTA/FOSTA, shadow-banning, deactivation... It's a huge topic of discussion that slowly but surely, adult content is being wiped clean on internet platforms, including the ability to monetize work. The latest to hit this is Tumblr, with their platform-wide ban on all adult content as of 17th December. This has caused content creators to have to …
I don’t belong to anyone
I have a very fiery relationship with those four words: You belong to me. I hear it in movies, read it in books, see it in relationships, where the person is supposedly declaring their love for the other person and using those four words that make me want to shrivel up: You belong to me. Those words …
Anal sex and anxiety
When I look at my chosen title for this post, immediately I think of oil and water. Not the best mix. To be candid, the last time I had anal sex was six months ago. For all you lovers of all things butt stuff, that can feel like a long time. I have wanted to over the …
Becoming Violet Grey 