Double Standards and Kink Shame (Warning: Rant)

Disclaimer: I am by no means a BDSM expert or educator. These are just my opinions. Everyone is perfectly entitled to disagree with me and to have their own opinions. I'm not in any way trying to kink or vanilla shame anyone. I politely ask that all discussions with one another are kept respectful. This …

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Throwing labels out the window

Ah labels. Labels labels labels. Though certain labels have helped me over the last few months i.e. switch, as a point of reference, I'll happily hold my hands up and say as a newbie, I well and truly fell head first in to the label trap. I suppose to find a name for a feeling …

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