Hello friends,

I hope you’re all well and keeping cool this summer. As you can see, it’s been a while since I last posted. I wanted to take some time to myself, to focus more on regular life and work. As well, I’ve been thinking about what to do with this blog.

As time’s gone on, I’ve been wondering what direction to take this site. Do I keep it? Do I end it and hang up my boots as a sex blogger and solely focus on romance and erotic writing? Do I change the direction of the blog entirely or keep it the same? Or has this chapter of my life officially come to a close? I’ve not been sure, and truthfully, friends, I’ve not been sure for quite a while. But I know one thing for certain: I’ve now gone from a sprightly 23-year-old wanting to explore my sexuality and write about it, along with producing spicy stories for your enjoyment, to a woman in my early 30s. I’m more settled, more sure of myself as a person (though there’s still a lot in life I’m trying to figure out; I don’t think that ever stops). With time, we change, and we grow.

For a long time, I’ve wanted to make some changes to this blog. Since Christmas 2025, I’ve seen a significant uptick in views to my site. To all of you who are new, I extend a warm welcome.

THE INTERSECTION OF FAITH AND SEXUALITY

As many of you know, I have been a woman of faith since my mid-twenties. I am a practising Anglo-Catholic and would like to write more of my thoughts as I navigate the intersection of faith and sexuality. Theology fascinates me, and I would like to share my thoughts on various texts, using my experience as a sex blogger on what can be positive, negative or both. As I’ve settled more into my faith, I feel my perspective and understanding have broadened to different approaches and opinions, even if I may not agree with them. I hope that, along with writing out my thoughts, it might be useful to someone. While I’m no theologian, health professional etc. I hope you enjoy reading what I share, whether it’s about my favourite devotions, what I’ve been reading etc. I’ve been greatly inspired by fellow blogger and friend, Christine Woolgar, who also covers sexuality as a woman of faith.

I DON’T KNOW HOW OFTEN I’LL BE POSTING

To put it simply, I don’t know how often I’ll be posting. I’m taking things one step at a time right now. When the need strikes to write, I guess? It’s early days yet, and I’ll see how I feel. Like I said, I’m still not entirely sure where I’m going with my site. Either way, if you choose to stick around, thank you. It really does mean a lot.

NO MORE IRL INTIMATE STORIES

I used to write about some juicy details in my personal explorations of sex, etc. That will no longer be the case. I prefer to keep that private now.

I know this will not be everyone’s cup of tea, and I completely respect that. Either way, you are welcome here. Thank you for your patience, and have a wonderful day, wherever you are in the world.

Violet x