All the hedonism

CW: Brief mention of harder kinks such as knife play, CBT and permanent marking. Reader discretion is advised. “Pleasure is sweetest when ’tis paid for by another’s pain.” – Ovid I suppose this quote could be considered in many contexts, interlinking with the following: 'Karma has it's way'. 'Revenge is a dish best served cold', 'A dose of …

Continue reading All the hedonism

1 Year on Reusable Period Products

CW: Period talk which gets pretty candid. Not for the squeamish. If you've been reading my blog for a while, you'll have seen my talking about switching to reusable period products in the beginning of 2020. I'm making changes to be more sustainable in my life, trying to do my bit to fight the climate …

Continue reading 1 Year on Reusable Period Products

Deconstructing clobber verses: Homophobia – Part 1

CW: This post covers sensitive subjects, such as homophobia, abuse of power, and child sexual abuse. Reader discretion is advised. I am not a scholar or theologian, but someone passionate about extensive research, learning religious history through context and reputable Hebrew scholars etc. Any and all abusive comments will be blocked and reported. For those …

Continue reading Deconstructing clobber verses: Homophobia – Part 1

Being each other’s mirror

CW: Mentions of trauma and abuse. Reader discretion is advised. “A true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.”– Elizabeth Gilbert Pursuing a committed relationship with someone you deeply love and care for should …

Continue reading Being each other’s mirror