You know when you have one of those nights when you're having sex with your significant other and no matter what you're doing, it just isn't working? That's what happened recently. There I was, riding my handcuffed (with some gorgeous leather cuff I received as a Secret Santa gift) and blindfolded boyfriend. I did some …
Respect is so important. I firmly believe in the basic respect of manners and being good to people, unless they've given you a solid reason not to be. Even then, I believe it's best to remove yourself from their toxicity if you can. I do get stressed and angry about injustices and people being horrid …
From what I've learned along the kinky road so far, 'edge play' can be pretty subjective. What's considered edgy for one may be normal to another. However, also from what I've heard from educators and the general kink scene, 'edge play' can be types of play considered higher risk and generally challenges the boundaries of …
This picture is one of my favourites I've found on the internet and sums up how I view my relationship with my boyfriend. He is a protector and provider. He is my rock. My lover. My best friend who I can be my weird self with. In his arms I feel safe and I'm home. …
I've yet to be in a position where I am being 'trained' by someone who is heavily experienced in the art of the kink. And with training, as in a Dominant training a submissive, I'm yet to develop a strong opinion on it. Because this isn't something I've experienced first-hand, I don't wish to waste …
Becoming Violet Grey 