*While I'm talking about male survivors of sexual violence in this post, I am in no way undermining the experiences of women, gender non-conforming persons etc. These are my opinions on the matter and do not wish to offend in any way. I politely ask that any comments left are not malicious to anyone. Be …
Continue reading We can’t forget about male survivors of sexual violence
The first time I gave a guy a blowjob was at 20. When I met my boyfriend, it didn't take us long to get intimate together. This came as a bit of a shock to me, because I was always conservative in comparison to my friends with, "I'll wait a few months". But hey, when …
A few days ago, the lovely sirsnumber1kitten wrote 50 things about herself and encouraged her readers to 😊 It's been difficult to think of 50 (turns out I'm pretty boring lol) but I got there eventually! 😂 So here we go! 1. I don't drink. 2. I've never smoked. 3. When I was in my …
This is a continuation from something I saw the lovely kitten from Sir and Kittens Pleasure Place say about vanilla shaming recently. I too have seen certain kink circles on FetLife etc. using the term "vanilla" as derogatory and as an insult. For those who don't know, "vanilla" is a word to describe a non-kinky …
Disclaimer: I am by no means a BDSM expert or educator. These are just my opinions. Everyone is perfectly entitled to disagree with me and to have their own opinions. I'm not in any way trying to kink or vanilla shame anyone. I politely ask that all discussions with one another are kept respectful. This …
Continue reading Double Standards and Kink Shame (Warning: Rant)
Becoming Violet Grey 