Throwing labels out the window

Ah labels. Labels labels labels. Though certain labels have helped me over the last few months i.e. switch, as a point of reference, I'll happily hold my hands up and say as a newbie, I well and truly fell head first in to the label trap. I suppose to find a name for a feeling …

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Body image talk: Working those tiger stripes

Hi, I'm Violet. I'm 23 and I have...stretch marks. *GASP* Stretch marks seem to be quite a thing in the world of society's beauty standards. Photoshop here, a little touch up there and boom! No cellulite, no stretch marks, looking like the women in the magazines. Here's my question. Why? Warning: I may start ranting …

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Exploring BDSM/Kink – Part 10 – Music and submission?

A while back, I read a really interesting post from sayyidsgirl about songs that can trigger a submissive mind set. I love music. I can't go a day without listening to it. It's a creative way to express feelings in all ways, shapes and forms. It resonates with us, entertains us and moves us. Listening …

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