So recently I bought this... I was perusing a sex shop and found a velvet collar and leash, which I've been curious about trying for a while now. While it may not be the most amazing collar and leash in the world, it's a start. I tried it on when I got home, and my …
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Taboo talk
One of the definitions of taboo in the dictionary is: 'a social or religious custom prohibiting or restricting a particular practice or forbidding association with a particular person, place, or thing.' Throughout history taboos have changed and new ones have emerged. In religious scriptures, particularly in Abrahamic faiths, period sex is considered a taboo, along …
Assume the position
For a long time my favourite position (or rather the idea of, as was in my virginal days) was cowgirl, aka girl on top. I loved the idea of it being different as opposed to missionary, and one of the primary positions where the woman can be in charge. Meow! I still LOVE the cowgirl …
Navigating sex with IBS
So as of a few days ago, after a series of tests, I got diagnosed by a specialist bowel surgeon with Irritable Bowel Syndrome, also known as IBS. Experiencing this for a number of years (starting after my maternal grandmother passed away from lung cancer) it's been speculated by myself, my nearest and dearest, and …
The heat of the night
CONTENT NOTE: This was a post that I wrote and published last year but somehow ended up back in my drafts. Ahh technology and its quirks! Either way, enjoy! V x Picture this: I begin to stir, heavy lidded and half asleep. It's still pitch dark outside and I roll over to my boyfriend. He …
Becoming Violet Grey 