I have few rules when it comes to relationships, but the ones I do have I stand by strongly. Now I don't have a comprehensive list, so to round up it falls into the 'dont be assholes to each other.' camp. Respecting each other, honesty and communication are paramount and bare bone deal breakers for …
Especially in the last 14 months, I've been more proactive in making sure I prioritise time for myself. If I don't have some 'me' time to recharge I won't be any good to anyone, least of all myself. I try to have some time for myself every day, usually in the evenings when I'm generally …
It's a strange feeling, being suspended in rope. The soles of my feet tingle with the unfamiliarity of not being permanently bonded to the ground. I feel I should be falling back to the earth, yet I do not. I'm secured in a harness of hemp, suspended from a metal ring. I feel like I'm …
I got my first love bites at 23, by accident. When I first started becoming more intimate with men, that would be a rule: No hickeys. Ever. As well as for sensation, it was for practicality as well. I couldn't be bothered to wear a scarf all day around my neck to hide someone's mark …
So this last weekend I went to my first ever Eroticon! I was fortunate to be drawn for a ticket via the Eroticon ticket pool, travelling down to London for Friday and Saturday, before returning home on the Sunday. I asked my sister Wanda, a romance writer and reviewer, if she wanted to come along …
Becoming Violet Grey 