I’m bisexual. Who am I?

CONTENT NOTE: This piece is inspired by the video ‘I’m bisexual, but I’m not.’ produced by Buzzfeed. Tackles biphobia and biphobic stereotypes.

I’m bisexual, but I’m not confused.

I’m bisexual, but I don’t have to ‘pick a side.’

I’m bisexual, but I’m not ‘just experimenting’.

I’m bisexual, and I don’t say I am ‘because men like it’. I say it because I am in fact, bisexual. I know, shocker.

I’m bisexual, but I have never cheated on anyone, nor does it make me more likely to. Infidelity and sexual orientation are not mutually exclusive.

I’m bisexual, but I’ve never had a threesome. Anyone can have threesomes regardless of their sexuality.

I’m bisexual, but I’ve never been intimate with another woman, and that doesn’t make me any less bisexual. How did you know you liked whichever genders you do before you slept with them?

I’m bisexual, and my being with a man doesn’t make me any less so, or should exclude me from being with my community in LGBTQ spaces.

I’m bisexual, and I’m not greedy or selfish. Unless it’s for cuddles and chocolate. In which case, gimme gimme gimme!!

I’m bisexual, but I’m not ‘doing it for attention’. Not many people in my everyday life actually know I am.

I’m bisexual, and no, I don’t want to fuck everyone I see.

So, who am I?

I’m bisexual, and I’m a writer.

I’m bisexual, and I’m a sex blogger.

I’m bisexual, and I’m a girlfriend, a sister, a daughter and a friend.

I’m bisexual, and I love dancing.

I’m bisexual, and I’m a bookworm.

I’m bisexual, and I’m a K-Pop nut. BTS anyone?

And I get ridiculously competitive at Scrabble!

I’m bisexual, and I believe that you are no better or worse than anyone else.

I’m bisexual, and I believe in comprehensive education and equality for all.

I’m bisexual, and I am monogamous.

I’m bisexual and I love nature.

I’m bisexual, and I love music. Especially metal. Rock on, my dudes 🤟🤘

I’m bisexual, and I’ve been told I give good hugs. Group hug everyone!

I’m bisexual, and I am a human being.

Just like you.

9 thoughts on “I’m bisexual. Who am I?

  1. I liked this post. I guess there is a lot of negative comments/behaviour toward bisexuals. I read about it all the time. Me, I’m looking at the person and not their sexuality. Who am I to belittle others? I drink pee for the love of God! and some of the things I’ve done—well I wouldn’t be telling my mom or colleagues at work!

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    1. Me too! 😂 I get the ‘So what are working on right now?’ Do you really want to know I’m working on a vacbed femdom story right now? 😂 Same, and I’m very lucky that most around me couldn’t care less, but sadly the prejudice is still alive and well 😔

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  2. Well said! This whole concept of being enough of something to belong is ridiculous, especially when the whole idea is to be inclusive of the entire spectrum of sexual identities. I, too, and bi, married to a man. I’ve had a few sexual encounters with women, one that basically proved to me I was clearly not doing this for anyone but myself (and her, of course). I haven’t been with another woman since…but I’ve been attracted to several.

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