Why at 24, I’m ditching birth control for good

I'd had enough. Being poked and prodded. Local anaesthetic. My insides going completely off kilter. Hospital checks. I'd had e-fucking-nough. Last month I made a decision to come off my combined pill, and unless it's absolutely necessary and there's no option (i.e. it being treatment for a serious health issue and that's the only way …

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Can’t we all just get along?!

I've come to the conclusion that the world's gone mad. Political polarisation, outrage culture, hatred, it's crazy. Lunacy. Absolute, 100% madness. I've recently been talking a lot with my nearest and dearest about what's been bothering me. Things I'm seeing in the street, the news and online. I don't know about you guys, but do …

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What’s YOUR sex positivity?

Hi, I'm Violet, your friendly neighbourhood rambler and overthinker! 😂 A few weeks ago I saw a post on my Twitter feed, retweeted by Girl On The Net (her content's brilliant and I highly recommend you check out her blog if you've not already!) regarding modern attitudes towards sex positivity and how for some, it …

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