The sanitization of adult content

SESTA/FOSTA, shadow-banning, deactivation... It's a huge topic of discussion that slowly but surely, adult content is being wiped clean on internet platforms, including the ability to monetize work. The latest to hit this is Tumblr, with their platform-wide ban on all adult content as of 17th December. This has caused content creators to have to …

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I don’t belong to anyone

I have a very fiery relationship with those four words: You belong to me. I hear it in movies, read it in books, see it in relationships, where the person is supposedly declaring their love for the other person and using those four words that make me want to shrivel up: You belong to me. Those words …

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Why at 24, I’m ditching birth control for good

I'd had enough. Being poked and prodded. Local anaesthetic. My insides going completely off kilter. Hospital checks. I'd had e-fucking-nough. Last month I made a decision to come off my combined pill, and unless it's absolutely necessary and there's no option (i.e. it being treatment for a serious health issue and that's the only way …

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Can’t we all just get along?!

I've come to the conclusion that the world's gone mad. Political polarisation, outrage culture, hatred, it's crazy. Lunacy. Absolute, 100% madness. I've recently been talking a lot with my nearest and dearest about what's been bothering me. Things I'm seeing in the street, the news and online. I don't know about you guys, but do …

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What’s YOUR sex positivity?

Hi, I'm Violet, your friendly neighbourhood rambler and overthinker! 😂 A few weeks ago I saw a post on my Twitter feed, retweeted by Girl On The Net (her content's brilliant and I highly recommend you check out her blog if you've not already!) regarding modern attitudes towards sex positivity and how for some, it …

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