To love myself as I love you

CW: This post contains talks about mental health (inc. post-traumatic stress, anxiety & depression) verbal & emotional abuse in relationships and sexual coercion. Reader discretion is strongly advised. Love takes many forms. The love we have for our family is different to that of our spouse. The love we have for our siblings is different …

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The sanitization of adult content

SESTA/FOSTA, shadow-banning, deactivation... It's a huge topic of discussion that slowly but surely, adult content is being wiped clean on internet platforms, including the ability to monetize work. The latest to hit this is Tumblr, with their platform-wide ban on all adult content as of 17th December. This has caused content creators to have to …

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I don’t belong to anyone

I have a very fiery relationship with those four words: You belong to me. I hear it in movies, read it in books, see it in relationships, where the person is supposedly declaring their love for the other person and using those four words that make me want to shrivel up: You belong to me. Those words …

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Why at 24, I’m ditching birth control for good

I'd had enough. Being poked and prodded. Local anaesthetic. My insides going completely off kilter. Hospital checks. I'd had e-fucking-nough. Last month I made a decision to come off my combined pill, and unless it's absolutely necessary and there's no option (i.e. it being treatment for a serious health issue and that's the only way …

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