Confidence lockdown

You know when you have one of those nights when you're having sex with your significant other and no matter what you're doing, it just isn't working? That's what happened recently. There I was, riding my handcuffed (with some gorgeous leather cuff I received as a Secret Santa gift) and blindfolded boyfriend. I did some …

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Regretting and forgiving

CONTENT WARNING: Mention of relationship abuse, mental health and physical illness. Reader discretion is advised. I like to think I approach life without regrets, but I'd be lying. I've said and done things I deeply regret. Especially when I was experiencing post-traumatic stress in my late teens and early twenties, when I was quick to …

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Crisis of faith

CONTENT WARNING: This post contains mention of mental health, religious adversity, discrimination and violence against LGBTQ individuals. Reader discretion is strongly advised. Any abuse will be sent straight to the spam folder! Also, I wrote this at 3am, so if there's some incoherent waffling, I do apologise!  The last two weeks have not been easy. …

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