TW: Miscarriage, pregnancy loss. I've spoken in the past about my experience with early miscarriage. It's never a pleasant topic to talk about, but I strongly believe it needs to be talked about. That, and during that time, I found writing out my thoughts and feelings to be healing. Recently, the memories of that time …
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Monasticism. An institutionalized religious practice or movement whose members attempt to live by a rule that requires works that go beyond those of either the laity or the ordinary spiritual leaders of their religions.Britannica To preface: I don't live a monastic life, obviously. I wouldn't be allowed to have this blog, for starters. Aside from the adult …
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TW: Religion, fundamentalism, homophobia, transphobia, mental health, abuse. I've been advised this numerous times when I was telling loved ones I was converting to Christianity. I've also given this advice to loved ones as well when religion etc. is concerned: Don't get sucked into anything. When I first became a Christian, the first film I …
My love for you supersedes the darkness that plagues you. For you, I will venture through that darkness and take you in my arms.So you will not have to fight the darkness alone. I may not be the cure, I may be flawed and fickle, as mere humans are.But for you, if I can provide …
So it's that time for the Eroticon Virtual Meet and Greet! This year, I've got the privilege of speaking! I'm excited and nervous, and looking forward to gathering with like-minded folks to share ideas and socialise. So here's a little taste to get to know me 😊 NAME (and Twitter/IG/Mastodon etc) Violet Grey. I go …
Becoming Violet Grey 