Writing and responsibility

I was inspired to write this post after reading a great post by submissy. Over the last few months I've shared so many things with you all regarding me delving head-first in to my kinks, wanting to experience Dominance and submission, the works. Recently, I've been seeing more posts from educators and those in D/s …

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We can’t forget about male survivors of sexual violence

*While I'm talking about male survivors of sexual violence in this post, I am in no way undermining the experiences of women, gender non-conforming persons etc. These are my opinions on the matter and do not wish to offend in any way. I politely ask that any comments left are not malicious to anyone. Be …

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Vanilla is not a dirty word

This is a continuation from something I saw the lovely kitten from Sir and Kittens Pleasure Place say about vanilla shaming recently. I too have seen certain kink circles on FetLife etc. using the term "vanilla" as derogatory and as an insult. For those who don't know, "vanilla" is a word to describe a non-kinky …

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