The last few months I've become more introspective about what I need in my life. After the breakdown I had in the new year, I really had to do what was best for me so I could recover. No ifs or buts, I needed to or it was back to square one. I can be …
Hi, I'm Violet, your friendly neighbourhood rambler and overthinker! 😂 A few weeks ago I saw a post on my Twitter feed, retweeted by Girl On The Net (her content's brilliant and I highly recommend you check out her blog if you've not already!) regarding modern attitudes towards sex positivity and how for some, it …
A few weeks ago, I bit the bullet after much talk with the boyfriend and bought our first paddle. I made sure it was the softest leather I could find amongst the other paddles available. With never using a paddle before, I didn't want to go all out and buy something I knew full well …
It's been almost a year since I properly began to research the mysterious world of BDSM. It doesn't feel like a year at all, it still only feels like yesterday! I've been baby stepping in my exploration. A good 90% of it has been reading, watching and writing with a few *ahem* bedroom experiments along …
The last two weeks have been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster and really made me quite reflective. My hospital appointment went well and everything's fine, thank goodness. Nothing to worry about! As well as a few out of the blue experiences and just general introspection, I've been reflecting on how much I've changed in this …
Becoming Violet Grey 