Fantasy v.s. Reality: Threesomes

I’ve been having more fantasies involving threesomes of late. Mainly MMF (male/male/female) and been watching more of this particular fantasy in the porn I tune in to at times.

Threesomes are a pretty common sexual fantasy among us. I remember reading a few articles where it was in the top three sexual fantasies when conducting surveys or studies.

Yet what I found so fascinating was the majority of people who have fantasies about threesomes don’t ever have one, or if they seriously consider doing it, bottle out at the last minute.

I’ve no shame in saying I fall in to the majority on that front.

The few nuggets of porn featuring MMF threesomes I found myself watching, I found really exhilarating. What wouldn’t be about two gorgeous men paying their undivided attention to you?

As well as this, having some rather interesting dreams in the last few months led me to discover something about me and my boyfriend.

I still remember this one particular dream so clearly. I was in a crowded bar somewhere on a Mediterranean island, partying the night way. I’d met this man, tall, brown haired, shirtless with a smattering of chest hair.

He was very charming but with a playful, boyish smile I thought was gorgeous. We liked each other and had a pretty immense chemistry, when things get a little steamy.

Before I know it, he’s lifted me up on to the wooden table; he’s fucking me and I’m loving every second of it. No one around us cares what we’re doing, leaving us to it. He fucks me relentlessly and comes on my stomach. Then I wake up.

I told my boyfriend about, “this crazy dream I just had” and he was excited by it. This surprised me, admittedly. My boyfriend is not a possessive man in his nature and we’re very secure in our relationship, but I never expected that response!

I was half expecting the usual past response of him jokingly going, “Don’t you love me anymore, babe?” before laughing and giving me a hug and kiss.

Jealousy has very rarely showed itself with us. Like I said, it’s not in our natures to be possessive with the other.

In fantasy, he found the thought of me doing it like rabbits with another guy exciting. In real life? Any man who suggested, he’d tell them to take a hike and I wouldn’t expect any less of him. Hell, I’d be saying to take a hike too! I’m his girl!

The same applied when I told him about an MMF dream I had. The same response, some excitement at the thought, but I know in real life it’s a definite no go area.

The same also applied with two women and one man, which I’ve also had fantasies and curiosities about. Having said this, I heavily prefer MMF fantasy over FMF.

The fantasy vs. reality applies to me as well, like it does us all. When I thought it was something I’d be open to, if he ever in the non-existent event approached it with me, I realised that just like him, I just wouldn’t be able to do it.

While the thought of sexually experimenting with a woman for the first time and all three of us having a blast can be a hot thought, the thought of him with another woman like that would just break my heart.

If my green eyed monster does come out on occasion, it’s only very subtle and in a way he finds endearing and vice versa. Imagine that adorable anime character grumpily stomping her feet saying, “Hey! My boyfriend! Go away!” πŸ˜‚

It certainly proved to be an interesting set of revelations for us. Some things are just best kept in fantasy land!

All my love,

Violet xx

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7 thoughts on “Fantasy v.s. Reality: Threesomes

  1. The green eyed monster… Methinks, if you love one another, you grant the experience to your spouse. An you will be thrilled when he is having a great and wonderfull experience with another woman in your presence. I know I do when I witness my girl .
    Even better, you can join in!
    Sharing lust doubles it!

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    1. We love each other very much, but we are monogamous to one another. That’s just our nature 😊 We fully accept that these fantasies are fun but with reality it just wouldn’t work. Many couples are like this and that doesn’t mean they love each other any less, just being aware of their own selves and boundaries without being possessive or toxic to one another 😊 It’s not something he’s interested in and after a little thinking myself I’m not either.
      Thank you for your insight, Joradam! It’s always interesting to hear a different perspective! x

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