Too far down the rabbit hole?

I sometimes wonder if I've gone too far down the rabbit hole. I'm a lot kinkier than I thought and when it comes to answering close folk's questions, it can be a little difficult for one: me to explain and two: for them to understand. For example, I was considering at one point maybe attending …

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Musings on porn (Part 3)

Straight women who watch gay porn. I've seen it covered in a variety of articles all asking the same question: Why do straight women watch gay porn? That's a question I had for quite a while, but with the shoe on the other foot. Why do so many men, particularly straight men, watch lesbian porn? …

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Why at 24, I’m ditching birth control for good

I'd had enough. Being poked and prodded. Local anaesthetic. My insides going completely off kilter. Hospital checks. I'd had e-fucking-nough. Last month I made a decision to come off my combined pill, and unless it's absolutely necessary and there's no option (i.e. it being treatment for a serious health issue and that's the only way …

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