• Are all the stories you write about real?

Most are erotic fiction. However, I have written about some of my real sex life. Nowadays, I prefer to keep my intimate life more private and to write erotic fiction.

• I like writing/want to write erotic fiction. Where do I start?

Start writing. Even if it’s just one sentence. There are many ways to write fiction, not just erotic fiction, i.e., short stories, poetry, flash fiction, etc. What do you enjoy about love and sex? Write it! Do you like the sensual or the rough, or both? Do you like slow-burning romances or strangers-to-lovers? Or both? Whether it’s for your own enjoyment and it never leaves your computer/notebook, or you want to publish your work as an author/on a blog, a lot of enjoyment from writing comes from the creative process. Do it because you enjoy it, and not for others’ approval.

• Can you be my Mistress?

No. I’m not a dominatrix. The ‘Miss’ in my name just means ‘not Mrs’, not as a dominant honorific. Even if it was, I’m still not a pro-Domme.

• You’ve written about faith before. Is this a religious blog?

No. While I consider myself a woman of faith, this blog is not deliberately aimed at the religious. I do write posts about my faith, but if that’s not your cup of tea, that’s absolutely fine 🙂 My blog is open to anyone over the age of 18. I do not subscribe to purity culture or slut-shaming. I believe in staying safe and informed.

• Can I “volunteer” for an experience with you for your blog? 😉

No. Just no.

• Can I email you my own sexual fantasies/photos?

No. I do not consent to having your fantasies or photos sent to me. Sending photos to someone without their consent, if not illegal, is just a dick move (no pun intended). Don’t be that person.

• Can I write my own fiction about you?

No. Someone did this without my consent a while back, and I was left incredibly uncomfortable by it. Please don’t. Just because someone writes about sex, love, and relationships doesn’t mean they’re “inviting” anything, or open for anything and everything, with anyone and everyone. Again, don’t be that person.