Why at 24, I’m ditching birth control for good

I'd had enough. Being poked and prodded. Local anaesthetic. My insides going completely off kilter. Hospital checks. I'd had e-fucking-nough. Last month I made a decision to come off my combined pill, and unless it's absolutely necessary and there's no option (i.e. it being treatment for a serious health issue and that's the only way …

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Vanilla is not a dirty word

This is a continuation from something I saw the lovely kitten from Sir and Kittens Pleasure Place say about vanilla shaming recently. I too have seen certain kink circles on FetLife etc. using the term "vanilla" as derogatory and as an insult. For those who don't know, "vanilla" is a word to describe a non-kinky …

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