Sex, self-care and sustainability

This last year especially, I took greater steps to prioritise certain things in my life. For the last two years, I've been gradually working on healing my mental and emotional health after a mental breakdown and miscarriage shortly after. I've also been prioritising my physical health more as well. I've started to properly do what …

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Finding new ways to be intimate

Me and my boyfriend haven't had penetrative sex in around two months now. As well as being ridiculously busy over the festive period with work, the main reason is due to an injury my boyfriend is in the process of healing. Long story short, his everyday job is quite physical. The air-con broke, and management …

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Discussing polyamory with my boyfriend

CONTENT NOTE: For anyone who is polyamorous, just to let you know I'm using very generalised language here (coming from someone who has only ever been in monogamous relationships). Since publishing, some language has been altered to clarify between polyamory and other acts like swinging and NSA relationships. Thanks. V x Polyamory has been a …

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