She’s baaacccckkk!!!
For the last few weeks, my dominant side has been begging to come out. Suffice to say, after a few months away she’s well and truly back with a vengeance! π
I still feel in my submissive headspace in the bedroom, enjoying the power and control my boyfriend exercises being the dominant partner in the sack.
But for the last few weeks, dominant me has been slowly creeping back in, reeling to take the reigns for a bit.
My boyfriend definitely enjoys being dominant in the bedroom, but he also enjoys letting me take control. Whatever he does during sex, one thing he loves is watching me get off before he does.
I love when he’s in those moods where he gets me on top of him and says, “I want you to do whatever you want to me.” It’s so hot when he does that, just thinking about it gets me all excited! Don’t have to tell me twice! π
A few of the things I’ve had an interest in if I’m the Dominant isn’t for him. He prefers to be the giver of spankings etc. rather than the receiver.
For example, I find the idea of him kneeling wearing a collar incredibly hot, but for him that’s a resounding NO. That’s completely fine π It’s not for everyone and he’s said before I’m kinkier than him in many ways.
That being said, he likes biting and being held down during sex if he’s in the mood for it. If my boobs are in his face when I’m top? Even better.
He loves it when I’m on top of him and he can feel, kiss etc. my chest. I love when I’m at the point of climax and open my eyes to see him watching me from below.
He is open to trying new things as you all know. We experimented with using some basic bondage and a blindfold on him whilst I pleasured him a while back. He said he really enjoyed that.
So while I’m still feeling my submissive self, I am enjoying having that Dominant feeling again. In my mind’s eye, I’m just feeling like getting a corset, heels and stockings on with a crop in my hand raring to go! π
Ok, I’m a little rusty but here goes…*clears throat*: Kneel. π
Let’s see what this brings!
All my love,
Violet xx
*Picture – Pinterest
Sounds pretty kinky and amazing!!!
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Thank you Nora! β€ xx
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Go for it!! Do the whup-ass thing!! βRide him Cow-Girl!!β
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Hahaha!! I’m nearly crying with laughter!! πππ xx
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Seriously your comment has made my day, love! π
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Well I do aim to please…π
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Well consider me very pleased, dear.lol π x
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Great post and switching is hard. I can switch on my S. but I am a bit different, I don’t like to blow away his dominance. Within that idea can still be a lot of fun.
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